Alone! Although surrounded by a “brazzilion” people... You understand people pole apart of you, that you love them but you can’t make them love you...
We all are different but people have a tendency to impose to others their own perspective of the world and how others should act.
Why? Perfection! We all know no one is perfect never the less when you love someone, that person has to be completely flawed less. You have conceived a model in your head and they have to be just like it.
It’s wrong; it’s bad above all when you love someone. There’s no way of avoiding it. Our selfish side always has something to say. Its human nature and we cannot be hypocrites denying this shadowy human facet.
Most of times, we don’t take too well when someone expresses their feelings about our actions, thoughts and opinions. But always have to say about other people.
Let’s cut the bullshit, let’s be a little more tolerant and take it less personally. Let’s start changing things. Let’s start with us. We do not change people in a second, especially if we impose conditions.
We cannot make people love us, but we can guide them. They can love us just the way we are being assertive.
To be assertive is a quest but why not? In the end everyone wins. No impositions, no sorrows and regrets, just changed people especially you (me).
We all are different but people have a tendency to impose to others their own perspective of the world and how others should act.
Why? Perfection! We all know no one is perfect never the less when you love someone, that person has to be completely flawed less. You have conceived a model in your head and they have to be just like it.
It’s wrong; it’s bad above all when you love someone. There’s no way of avoiding it. Our selfish side always has something to say. Its human nature and we cannot be hypocrites denying this shadowy human facet.
Most of times, we don’t take too well when someone expresses their feelings about our actions, thoughts and opinions. But always have to say about other people.
Let’s cut the bullshit, let’s be a little more tolerant and take it less personally. Let’s start changing things. Let’s start with us. We do not change people in a second, especially if we impose conditions.
We cannot make people love us, but we can guide them. They can love us just the way we are being assertive.
To be assertive is a quest but why not? In the end everyone wins. No impositions, no sorrows and regrets, just changed people especially you (me).
2 Comments:
never change because someone ask, change because you want or need to. i change a lot because of me but i change specialy because i lost who love and was selfish. i needed to change and i am happy because a did it but no one ask me... at this right moment i change because of "you" and if "you" ask me to change i probably refuse but i will think better because i don't want to lose "you"...
Always think twice...
kiss and change just a litle...
Well, I didn’t mean to say that we will change if someone asks us. I intended to say that if we try to be comprehensive and assertive instead of imposing our will or have attempt to make others do what we believe to be de right thing, they will be more willing with you. They did not change in terms of being something else but with power of suggestion in the right moment it will make a difference in a relationship.
We and only we have the power of changing things by investing in the way we interact with others. We have no power to change others and in fact is a mistake to try it but how we develop our character and persona depends only of us. No one else!
We know we suck why should we blame the others?! Investing in ourselves is priceless and with a complete potential and exponential growth.
It’s a complete circle. You change. People interact differently with you. They change! You will have also have a completely different point of view about those people.
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