Thursday, January 12, 2006

Alone! Although surrounded by a “brazzilion” people... You understand people pole apart of you, that you love them but you can’t make them love you...
We all are different but people have a tendency to impose to others their own perspective of the world and how others should act.
Why? Perfection! We all know no one is perfect never the less when you love someone, that person has to be completely flawed less. You have conceived a model in your head and they have to be just like it.

It’s wrong; it’s bad above all when you love someone. There’s no way of avoiding it. Our selfish side always has something to say. Its human nature and we cannot be hypocrites denying this shadowy human facet.

Most of times, we don’t take too well when someone expresses their feelings about our actions, thoughts and opinions. But always have to say about other people.

Let’s cut the bullshit, let’s be a little more tolerant and take it less personally. Let’s start changing things. Let’s start with us. We do not change people in a second, especially if we impose conditions.

We cannot make people love us, but we can guide them. They can love us just the way we are being assertive.

To be assertive is a quest but why not? In the end everyone wins. No impositions, no sorrows and regrets, just changed people especially you (me).